Grace and I are wearing our shirts today in support of the sixth annual spread the word stop the word day. Of course, she gets to wear her supergirl shirt because people with intellectual disabilities are super heros.
People with intellectual disabilities (like Grace) matter and using the
r-word to signify something is stupid or less than, demeans them and
I encourage you to find another word to express what you mean. I suggested using ridiculous in this post. However, according to this article there are too many words in the english language to count so you should have no problem finding another one.
Go here to join the movement and make a pledge to stop using the r-word.